FATHER’S DAY REFLECTIONS:
Why my Coach will
succeed as a Dad

by Peter Reese
VP of GolfTEC Marketing

BY THE TIME YOU READ THIS, the baby will likely be born. It’s his first, and this Father’s Day will be a special one. If he raises this child like he’s coached me in golf, then he’s got at least three powerful life principles at the ready.

PUT THE TRUTH FIRST, not sugar-coating problems or dodging positive progress. Do it with concern and compassion, of course.  But in an era of off-the-chart-encouragement-at-all-cost, the facts are a great place to start to improve.  Works in golf, learning to read, getting through middle school, and even facing heartache and loss.

BE PATIENT BUT KEEP THE CHALLENGE ALIVE instead of letting goals slip away because they’re too hard or inconvenient. While not everyone has the same vision for what progress looks like, learn what your golf student – or child – dreams about being or doing. Stay the course, show grace, but don’t let the prize ahead slip from view.

KEEP PERSPECTIVE, HELPING OTHERS DO THE SAME when difficulties seem overwhelming. Limit the use of “always,” “never,” and “forever” to when they really apply, using dramatic pronouncement in small doses --- and very selectively. By doing so, you’ll earn credibility and respect rather than becoming the coach, or Dad, who cried wolf.

As the father of five boys and two grandchildren, there’s been time to learn a little about what really works. Coach, you’ve got a great start even before your little one comes into the world.

Other Dads and Grandfathers, all the best for Father’s Day 2009 in both golf and life.